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Mary Maria Colling
From Bray (1884):
This letter requires some comment. It was about this time that in the course of correspondence I mentioned to him a young woman of extraordinary natural genius, Mary Colling. She had first attracted my notice in the church, where she usually sat with some of the poor women under the pulpit; I had been struck with the uncommon beauty and intelligence of her countenance; and a little servant of mine, who was herself acute and clever, told me that the young woman I so much admired, was person of excellent character and poetical gift; that she lived as housekeeper and servant with an old gentleman of this place. This account raised my curiosity greatly, and I told my little maid that I should be glad to show Mary Colling any kindness in my power. This led to her sending pieces of poetry and to my becoming acquainted with her. Her station in life and her few opportunities of developing her mind considered, she was altogether the most extraordinary person I ever met. Her mind was of masculine strength and her memory great; she possessed a natural eloquence, a pouring forth from the heart, with ready, playful wit, somewhat inclining to the satirical. Those powers she improved, as opportunities for obtaining books enabled her to cultivate her mind, and she soon became familiar with the finest passages of Milton and Shakspere, for whose beauties she had the highest relish. Mr. Bray was as much struck with her genius as myself, so that, when at the beginning of the year Mr. William Patten was with us, we got him to make a drawing of her. He succeeded perfectly in the likeness. preserving all the delicacy of her regular and beautiful features, and rendering also that intellectual character which so strongly marked her countenance. I took so much interest in her that I wrote to Mr. Southey more fully on the subject of her poetry... From Colling (1831): TO ROBERT SOUTHEY Vicarage, Tavistock, Devon
FROM the kind interest you have taken in [sic] behalf of Mary Colling, I am induced to give you in this letter a more detailed account of her than I have yet been able to do in my former communications. After she sent her little poems to me, I heard a good deal about her from carious quarters; but there accounts not always agreeing together, I determined to learn what I could from the poor girl herself. The first time I saw her, she was so agitated that I gained little intelligence; but the second, taking her into my own room, I did all I could to conciliate her feeling, and having in a great degree overcome her timidity, I obtained from her a regular account of herself, given in the most artless manner. I shall here repeat the substance of it with every attention to fidelity. My information respecting her singular worth, her early talents, and the excellence of her character, I derived from a lady who has known her from childhood, and from the worthy gentleman in whose family she has lived for so many years. Before entering, however, on these particulars, it may not be amiss to state that about four or five years since I first observed a young woman, of the humbler class, dressed exceedingly neat, and remarkable on account of the intellectual character of her countenance, who used to sit amongst several poor women immediately under the reading desk of Tavistock church. I was induced to enquire who she was, and learned that her name was Mary Colling, that she was a servant in a gentleman's family in the place, a clever girl, and fond of poetry. Some time after, I observed she was removed from where I first saw her, and usually took her seat in the pew near our own (belonging to the family in which she lived), where her expressive features and her decorous behaviour, always made me look upon her with peculiar interest: it was not, however, till the 4th of March, 1831, that I became fully aware of her remarkable talents; since on that day I first received from her, through the hands of one of my own servants, a small parcel, containing a few of her poems, with the request, very modestly preferred, that I would be kind enough to look over them at my leisure, and say what I though of them. Having stated these few circumstances, I now proceed to mention others of more, I think ,than ordinary interest respecting her. Mary Maria Colling, the daughter of Edmund Colling, husbandman, by his wife Anne, was born at Tavistock, August the 20th, 1805. In her childhood, she was sent to school to an old woman; no so much to learn any thing [sic], as to be kept out of the way. But little Mary was not to be so neglected, for hearing others taught to read, she had a wish to learn also; and her school-mistress finding she made no progress either in sewing or knitting, undertook the task, more congenial to her pupil, of initiating her into a knowledge of the alphabet and the first rudiments of learning. These she speedily acquired; and being possessed of Watt's Hymns, and a sixpenny book that had in it sundry little stories, with some few pieces in verse, she soon became so perfectly well acquainted with their contents, that she knew both books, form beginning to end, by heart; not, however, making the good old woman fully acquainted with the tenacity of her memory in thus storing itself with what then constituted her whole range of knowledge: so that when her mistress, on account of her negligence with the needle, would sometimes keep her in, after school house, as a punishment, Mary often managed to soften her displeasure and to gain her own liberty, by repairing something, with the utmost exactness, out of the sixpenny book in which she was set her daily lessons. Before she was five years old, she could read well enough to entertain her grandmother, who was very fond of her. At ten years of age, she was entered at the free school as a pupil to learn needle-work: there however, some kind ladies - Miss Mary Beauford [Beaufort] and Miss Charlotte Bedford - became friends to her, and taught her to read perfectly well, which she could no do till then, though she could write a little before, but can scarcely tell how she learnt to do so. At this school, likewise, she received small praise for sewing, but she wrote from copies, and was considered the spelling wonder amongst the children. Her memory also was surprising: she could repeat any thing by heart with scarcely more trouble than that of reading it over. However her schooling amounted to very little, for her object there having been to learn needle-work, she rarely went upon writing days, and her mother also, being repeatedly ill, and having a young family, Mary was obliged to stay at home and nurse her brothers and sisters for weeks together. When about thirteen years old, she entirely quitted the school; and at this period a beautiful incident occurred in her life. I wish, in repeating it, I could convey to you any idea of the feeling manner with which she related it to me. "It grieved her heart," she said, "to see that her father could neither write no read, for his Bible could not speak to him; and so she taught him both, herself, before she went to place." On hearing this account of her teaching her father to write and read - the latter that he might be enabled to read his Bible - Mr. Bray remarked that she was not less deserving praise for her filial piety than the Roman daughter who fed her father from her breast; the latter sustained her parent by supplying food for the body, the former gave her father the means of finding it for the mind, and of sustaining his spirit with the bread of life - the word of God. And I may here remark that Miss Charlotte Bedford was first induced to notice her on account of finding that when a mere child Mary was so amiable and affectionate to her father. "At fourteen years old," she said, " it pleased God to give her a good I must not omit stating, that not long before she became servant to Mrs. On receiving her wages, it had been her custom to spend as small a sum as she possibly could upon her clothes, and to buy little books with the remainder. I have heard also (though not from herself) that she has been very dutiful and generous out of her small means to her family, giving them assistance whenever she could do so. "Her master," she told me, "had been very kind to her; for though ill-natured people had endeavoured to set him against her, because she loved reading, he had never listened to them, but had bought her several good books for her benefit, and some sermons as a present at Christmas." Indeed, it appears that the poor girl's simple accomplishments, and keeping herself from idle company and gossips, have excited a good deal of envy amongst the narrow-minded in her own station and degree. Since her old mistress died, her sister had assisted in the family, though Mary manages, and does nearly all the work herself. Not the least interesting portion of her narrative was the good practical sense she displayed in telling me her method of housekeeping, &c. Since a severe illness, however, (and, like most poetical temperaments, she is at all times very nervous,) she is not allowed to do any laborious work beyond her strength. Some few books have been lent to her by her first benefactress, Miss C. Bedford, a lady who, to this day, continues to be her kind friend. Yet, putting all her reading together, I found it amounted to very little; excepting that she had made herself perfectly well acquainted with that one true book, which, independent of its sacred character, is, perhaps, of all books the most calculated to elevate the mind, and to form a pure, just, and simple taste - the Bible. Here she is quite at home, and knows whole chapters of it by heart. Indeed, her memory is surprising, and her comprehension exceedingly quick. In the course of conversation I told her, that I had heard, from a lady, she was fond of astronomy: was it true? She replied, "she had once read a book that came in her way, on the subject, as she liked to learn any thing she could, but she knew very little about it; only that she could never look at the beautiful moon and the stars without wishing to understand their courses." Finding, excepting in her Bible, she had really read very little poetry, I asked her how she came to understand such words as zephyrs, Aurora, &c., and that Flora was the goddess of flowers, as I observed allusion to such persons and things continually in her poems. I also asked how she had formed her way of writing, and learnt such bold and forcible expression? To the former question she replied, "That she had a dictionary; at the end of it there was an explanation about the gods and goddesses, and there she had learnt it: that if she met with a word in reading which she did not understand, she never past it over, but looked it out in her dictionary, and seldom forgot how a word was spelt if she once saw it in print; and as to her language, she had gained that from hearing Mr. Bray preach. To listen to him was her greatest delight, and she though she owed much to his sermons. As a proof of it," she said, "he had inspired her to attempt poetry." It was on the following occasion, about six years ago, he preached a sermon on the power of God manifested in the creation of the world; she was struck with it, and on her return home, composed the following, being her first essay in verse, on
* In the sermon, Mr. Bray, I believe, quoted Addison's Hymn, "The spacious firmament," &c. This, probably, may account for her using the expression in the poem. Some time after this, she began to compose her fable, before she had ever read any, excepting two or three in prose, in the sixpenny book she had learn at school. Lately somebody had lent her Gay's Fable, but she had yet only read a few of them. In the history of this poor girl's mind - which surely is replete with interest - I was anxious to learn what could have induced her to think of writing fables, not having been, from her own account, at all prompted to do so by reading them. She blushed like crimson when I asked her, smiled, and at last I drew our the confession. She said, "that her master, seeing she did not go out much, or run about like other girls, from kindness to her gave her a slip of garden to amuse herself with cultivating it in her leisure hours; till, at length, all the flower garden came under her care. The river Tavy flowed at the foot of it; and here she found the greatest delight. She would tell me truth, though she was afraid to speak it, lest I should think her mazed*; but when of an evening she was amongst the flower beds, an saw them all so lively and so beautiful, she used to fancy the flowers talked to her. Thus, a peony growing near her laurel tree, she fancied the one reproaching the other for not being so fine as itself, and so composed her little fable of the 'Peony and the Laurel'. And these kind of thoughts used to come into her head in a moment, and then she turned them into verses fables." Is not this poor girl truly a poet of nature? I have not the slightest doubt of what she says; for almost all her fables - and her best fables - relate to flowers and trees. * Mazed is a Devonshire expression, meaning mad. When I mentioned to Mr. Bray, that she said she used to fancy the flowers talked to her, and that she had composed fables before she had read any, he remarked, that this poor girl, like Ęsop, was in a state of servitude; and possibly that persons of their stamp of mind so situated, feeling themselves so far beyond the ordinary society of their own sphere, might be led to seek it in a world they created for themselves by the vivacity of their own imagination, and thus hold discourse, as it were, with flowers, and trees, and animals. I mentioned, I believe, in a former letter, that she had not been in the I then ventured to tell her my all-powerful secret (for I had not yet disclosed it to her) namely, that I had sent two of her fables to no less a person than Mr. Southey! and asked her if she really knew who he was. She looked somewhat alarmed, and said, "Oh yes, she had heard that this gentleman was the King's poet!" I told her not to be frightened, and assured her that the "King's poet" was one of the kindest-hearted men in the world, and that I would venture to say in his name (for I had not then received your last letter*), that he would not despise her little verses, but would read them with every indulgence. * In the letter here alluded to, Mr.Southey, with that generous feeling towards the luckless children of the muses by which he has ever been distinguished, not less than by his transcendent genius, offered, should a volume of Mary's Fables, &c., be prepared for the press, not only to subscribe to it himself, but endeavour to interest his friends in her behalf. Mr. Southey likewise, as a mark of kindness, did the poor girl the honour of presenting her with a copy if his beautiful poem of "Madoc". Another little anecdote must not be forgotten. She told me that somebody had lent her an old book, containing extracts from the different poets. I asked her whose poetry she liked best in it? She answered me, with all the simplicity imaginable, "that there were some extracts from a person whose name was Shakespeare, and she thought she liked them the best."* * Messrs. Longman, Rees, & Co, with a kindness that did them honour, not long after this letter was written, presented Mary Colling with a copy of Shakspear's Plays. Knowing how close a union there is at all times between poetry, flowers, and love, I ventured to ask if she had a sweetheart. She smiled and said, "Oh, no, she could read and amuse her mind, in her leisure hours, with making verses, and with her flower-garden, and that made her quite happy: she did not want one." I do not think there is any danger that this poor girl's heard will be turned by any notice of her. She is very modest, and seems imbued with a deep sense of religious feeling, the surest safeguard against vanity; since such a fault is seldom found in a mind accustomed to serious thoughts on sacred subject. It is more frequently the vice of those who think too much about themselves, and too little about their God. She has the Devonshire accent, but not coarsely; and, though a perfect country girl in every thing, - in her smile, her cap, her little straw bonnet, and her curtsy, - yet there is nothing vulgar about her. The elevated feelings of her character have given to her manners that indescribable mark of mind, which shows itself amidst the greatest simplicity, and is never to be mistaken. As, in noticing those who are at all distinguished for talent or worth, it is customary to say something of their person, I may be allowed, perhaps, to state, that nature has been liberal to her in this particular. Her features are regularly handsome, especially the forehead, eyebrows, and eyes; the latter peculiarly so when animated in conversation. And I may here observe, that Mary Colling the servant, and Mary Colling talking about poetry and flowers, scarcely appears to be one and the same person. If I had not seated her for a couple of hours by me side, and won upon her to open her heart, I should never even have guessed the animated interesting being she could become in conversation. I do assure you, when I looked on the beautiful expression of her countenance, so tempered with modest, and listened to the feeling modulation of her voice, "soft and low", for she has that "excellent thing in woman," as she repeated to me her own admirable lines on Creation, O could not help entertaining for her a degree of admiration that was not unmixed with reverence and regard. Should it be the will of God that this poor girl is to be benefited by our means, I can only say I shall most happily become the instrument. I hope you will not think me superstitious, if I confess to you that I love to trace events through the most apparently trifling links of that chain which leads to their source. It certainly was something quite out of the usual course of things that Mary should have sent her little poems to me (and not the best of them either) at such a time - on the very day I was about to reply to your letter, and when my own feelings had been so recently impressed with your kindness to me, that mine were but the more open to her. I have only to add, that she bears an unblemished character, and I have every cause to think will not disgrace the good gifts Providence has so amply bestowed upon her. You will also be glad to learn, that, since I commenced my letter, a lady of this place, Miss Mary Beauford [Beaufort], whose good sense and kind heart are ever active in promoting the welfare of the humbler classes, called upon me, and express her readiness to assist in any plan that might be set on foot for Mary's benefit. Mary's worthy master, Mr. Hughes, has likewise, in the most generous manner, expressed the same resolution; so I hope on my return from London, which I am soon to visit, that we shall be able to bring out a little volume of her poems to do credit to Tavistock. She has this moment sent me a beautiful plant from her garden, and copy of verses, expressive of her grateful feelings for the little kindness I have shown her? Could there be a more graceful mode of returning it? Praying you to excuse the length of my letter in behalf of the poor poet, for whom you have expressed so kind an interest. Allow me, my dear Sir,
© Chris Goddard, 27 November, 2004
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